Well honeys,

I spent the last 10 years in the Wilder Shores of Eros exploring what works and what doesn’t.

One thing that DOES WORK.

BREATHE!

Relax the jaw.

Relax the belly.

Put your hand on your belly, and breathe in a long, slow relaxed manner just to get the hang of it. GOAL: To have your belly rise BEFORE your chest when inhaling. To have your chest sink first, then the belly when exhaling. (Once you get skilled at this, and while lovemaking, you won’t need to use your hand to remind yourself).

I use this technique every time I make love to my Divine Beloved.

This will bring more pleasure into the entire body and blood flow into the genitals.

Rapid breathing has a tendency to increase the rush to orgasm.

In general, Tantric Texts advise:

Women can breathe a bit faster into that relaxed belly.

Men can breathe slower.

Experiment (while making love with yourself or another). Be conscious, present, and aware of each moment. The flow of energy, sensation, and intimacy changes moment to moment.

Let us know how it goes.

Lovingly,
Francesca