What do you do if you don’t want to have sex? OR Can’t seem to get aroused?

This is where Sacred Sex and Tantra are SO additive!

The Sacred perspective holds that there is nothing bad or wrong with how we are feeling. FIRST we use acceptance.

The Sacred perspective allows us to look at all of life as an opportunity or invitation to ever greater growth, soul, healing, wholeness, and bliss.

After we face what is so about our life, we can begin to question what might be the root causes?

Questions to ask:

- Is there something clinically dis-eased in my body?
If there is high blood pressure, blocked arteries, diabetes, etc (or a concern that there might be) check with a Dr.

- Am I aging? Could I be in Andropause (male hormonal changes) or Menopause (female hormonal changes)?
If so, see an anti-aging specialist. Get hormone levels tested and optimized.

- Have I been emotionally, physically, and/or sexually abused in my life?
If so, my low libido, can be an invitation to begin a healing process with my past. Healing does not mean condoning the perpatrator. It does mean calling our soul home to our body and celebrating our life.

- Have I been overgiving, or stepping over my own limits and boundaries in order to get security, touch, sex, or some sense of love?
If so, low libido is an opportunity to learn how to check into my body wisdom, learn to express my wants/needs compassionately and to stand up for my limits/boundaries.

- Am I anxious about opening my self fully to love and pleasure?
If so, Tantra & Sacred Sexuality can give me the tools to relax, release the inner/outer critic, embrace my desire, courageously open to my vulnerability, and explore new ways of engaging in Eros.

To raise our libido and learn to be the magnificently divine lover we long to be, takes ongoing training and development. I encourage you to keep looking for books, videos, audio tapes and workshops on anti-aging, communication, energy work, touch, Eros, Sacred Sexuality & Tantra.

I’m never done. How about you?

I’m so lucky I get to share in the journey with YOU!

Let me know what you would like to know