TANTRA FOR SUBMISSIVES?

Can Tantra help create a nourishing bridge for a couple where the man likes to be “submissive” and the woman prefers traditional sexuality.

If the couple is willing, I do recommend Tantra & Sacred Sexuality training. Especially the version that empowers her to BE the Priestess of Love.

I have seen several couples, in which men who had BDSM preferences, came to love having their beloved presence the Divine Feminine and GUIDE THE SACRED EROTIC EXPERIENCE
for them.

They still get to relax, release, go on a journey, and be taken. However, they get to SURRENDER TO LOVE & INTIMACY, rather than submit to force, degradation, restraint or domination. In my experience, one of the things that BDSM provides is the permission for the “sub” to let go completely into their own pleasure.

In this version of Sacred Sexuality, the woman is still the pro-active partner. However, she gets to step into her delicious power as the well of the Divine Feminine. She gets to tap into the energy of the elements so as not to drain herself (similar
to the energy work in Reiki). She gets to deepen into FEELING THE GLORIOUS GODDESS THAT SHE IS. She gets to guide the experience into the soulful intimacy she longs for.

(This concept also works for men who wish to become the Priest of Love. And whose partner may be a “sub.”)

For anyone who may be around North Carolina prior to the AASECT Conference June 20 - 24, I will be teaching; “Becoming the Lover They Never Forget” in Asheville the weekend prior. Let me know if you are interested.

Warning: Traditional Tantra classes may trigger feelings of loss or anger if the couple is supposed to be switching roles or partners in the exersizes. They may be better served in private coaching sessions that can be tailored for their needs.