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Honoring The Divine Phallus

HAVE YOU EVER BEEN TOLD THAT YOUR PHALLUS IS SACRED?

Have you ever told a man that his Phallus is sacred?

Sadly, for the last 5,000 years, male genitalia has been viewed and termed as a weapon. A rod, a sword, a blade.

Something amazing happens when we embrace that our genitals are truly precious, life giving, healing, empowering, and sacred.

When touching the phallus of my beloved, FIRST I GET PRESENT TO THE LOVE & ADORATION I FEEL FOR HIS GENITALS. I slow down my breath. I deepen and lengthen my breathing. I intend that my heart is open, and my touch is healing.

Soon I feel a tingling in my body, and often, tears in my eyes.

I think, “this is the Flowering Tree, the Wand of Life, the Seed Bearer. THIS IS THE MAGIC WAND OF PLEASURE. Without the Phallus, there would be no life on the earth.”

I gently cup my hand around his scrotum and shaft. I breathe. I look into his eyes with love and pleasure. I envision the energy of the green earth rising from his feet, through his legs, up to his phallus, and on up through his belly, into his heart. I put my other hand on his heart chakra (in the center of the chest at the same latitude as the heart). I breathe.

Sometimes I may speak words of honoring his phallus or I may sing to it, or tone OM on it. He loves that a lot!

As I slow down my rushed day-to-day thinking, breathe and fill my heart with love & adoration, each touch, breath, sound, lick, kiss becomes divine. It is the difference between fast food and an exquisite gourmet meal. His body feels the difference. And in that moment, the world shifts and is healed, holy, whole.

If you are a man, I invite you to have your beloved read this. Be prepared that she may be sad or angry at first, since she may feel that her genitals have never been truly worshipped and adored. (I’ll talk more about worshipping the vulva in a future blog). If you are a woman, I invite you to try on that you are the Priestess of Love meant to bring this healing to the world.

Experiment. Ask questions.

I am here on the journey with you.

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