Why would anyone need to learn to orgasm? Aren’t we humans born knowing how? Isn’t it just “wired in”?

Actually, we humans are born with an ability to learn most everything. With that ability, some incentive, and lots of practice, we learn to breastfeed, and for some of us that can take several days. We learn to walk, run, skip, hop, jump and dance. We learn to talk and sing, read and write. In fact, we learn most everything we do. Some of us learn to do these all-too-human activities better than others. Some of us become Olympics-caliber athletes, professional dancers, opera singers, etc.

Some of the difference between those “stars” and we “ordinary” folks is innate, God-given, hereditary. I’m not ever going to be as tall as the average NBA player. My hands will never grow to be as large as an NFL quarterback’s. Yet there are successful pro basketball players under 6 feet tall - Spud Webb, the 1986 NBA Slam Dunk Champion was 5′7″. Doug Flutie, at 5′9″, was considered too small to play football. Yet he won the 1984 Heisman Trophy (for outstanding College play) and then had a 20+ year career in professional football. Ability, incentive and practice - lots of practice - and we humans can do most anything.

I was talking to Patti Taylor, author of Expanded Orgasm, and she said she wanted to have Olympics-caliber orgasms! In 1988 she had her first expanded orgasm and began a journey to study how to create these experiences, and share with others the potential they hold and power they unleash. She received her PhD in Transpersonal Psychology in 2000. Over the years, Dr. Patti has studied with many sources, including More University, the Human Awareness Institute, hypnosis and Tantra. Please note: some of her most extensive experience has come from her own ongoing intensive practice, having had 3-5 extended, ecstatic Expanded Orgasms per week for over 15 years.

In other words, with our innate ability, the incentive of a lifetime of ecstatic orgasms and practice - lots of practice - we all can have better orgasms than, perhaps, we knew were actually available. Hmmm, as of now, I’m in training!