What Is Sex?
Found a fun blog called Sexy Hot Beauty: The Sex Trap. The trap comes from the idea that women use sex to get love and men use love to get sex. And if the sex is “good” then we’re instantly a committed couple.
A big part of the problem is that sex does not equal intimacy. Intimacy - in to me you see - involves inviting another person into your heart, your mind, your soul. Intimacy requires honesty, openness and time. What makes a lot of sex “great” is the endorphins produced by orgasming. But, sadly, familiarity will lessen some of those feelings over time. Great relationships happen when we replace the excitement of newness with the bliss of conscious loving.
Telling the truth, sharing loving touch and quiet communication, creating a kind of Lovership. Making sex into Spiritual Energy eXchange, that’s the path to bliss.
Sex, Love, and Intimacy » 10 Ways to Make Love said,
June 26, 2007 @ 2:59 pm
[…] Surfing the net I stumbled on this terrific post for teens - Top 10 Ways to Make Love Without Sex. Hugging, love notes, hand-holding and seven more ideas, all supporting my belief that “sex” is so much more than genitals rubbing and being rubbed. I think SEX is an acronym for Sensual Energy eXchange, or Spiritual Energy eXchange. […]