As I am sitting here in bed (don’t get jealous, I strained my back and have been laid out for days!) I came across a blog posting from two of my favorite Sex Coaches, Celeste and Danielle, that reminded me of the power and blessing that it is to be a woman.
They write “all women are sensuous goddesses whose bodies can experience sensation and pleasure and whose hearts can experience passion and connection… return to the knowledge that you are already a perfect, luscious and yes, sexual, being.”

Ah, isn’t it fantastic that we can hop online and in a few seconds be reminded of all the fabulousness of being alive, a woman, a sexual being, a goddess…

If you are wanting a great shot in the arm of the magnificence of being a woman, check out my interview with Celeste and Danielle who inspire all of us to be the greatest women we can be and who actively show us how.

Most of the issues we deal with in life, come from our confusion about who we are as women, which is at the heart of the work that Celeste and Danielle do. We think we have to forego our wants and desires to please others. We think we should give and give and give while receiving is frowned upon. It seems to be the most difficult thing to allow ourselves PLEASURE. Well, it is time to start getting back into balance with the amount of hard work we do by allowing ourselves that same amount of pleasure!

We MUST learn how to ask for what we want and also how to RECEIVE. It took me two days of lying on my back with tears in my eyes before I got on the phone to ask friends for some help. And it took me a second to receive all the love that came back when I asked for what I wanted.

Once we start exercising that ARM (Asking and Receiving Muscle), we start to see all the love available around us. And you know who stepped up the most? The men in my life - men ReAlly like to provide for women! We just have to ask them and let them do it. Men want to be our hero and when we allow ourselves to ask men for what we want and let them know how important they are in our lives, they just beam. Really, try it. And let me know how it goes.