I don’t like when I hear that “men are dumb” because it perpetuates a perception of men that is not healthy or positive. After talking with Dr. Amir Sabongui in a recent interview, I see that even the smartest, most savvy of men will not always get what we need or want. Men are not dumb, they just are not women and they will never understand what it is like to be a flowing, deeply sensate, emotional, intuitive, sensual being with a million desires that change in every moment.
As empowered women who are completely responsible for our lives and the quality of our lives, it makes sense that we can benefit from understanding the nature of men. It is important for us to consider that men are naturally driven to fix things - men want us to be happy - men tend toward isolation - they are not intentionally pissing us off or making us crazy - that is choice WE get to make or not.

We treat men (and anyone) with attitudes that are borne out of our own minds, our own perspectives - that is why it is REALLY important to have clear information about who men are, what motivates and hinders them, what they need to feel supported and loved so they can unleash the kind of desire, attention and romance we deeply crave.
I really appreciate what Amir has to say about men and what men need to feel taken care of by women. This is the kind of information that will wake us up from our own innocent ignorance about men to help us have the sexy, yummy, fun and authentic relationships we are here to create!

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