My breasts are size 36C ~ otherwise known as LARGE ~ especially for my petite 5′2″ frame. I have done my fair share to keep my breasts and associated cleavage under wraps (literally) my whole life. I felt like I had to cover myself up lest I attract “unwanted” attention. So I lived in anger and resentment for a long time over the idea that men couldn’t keep their oogling in check and I had to be recipient of this uncomfortable staring and commenting.
In my early 30’s I learned that “Men are visual - they are always going to look at you, it is in their DNA, so get used to it and try to smile and have compassion.” It took me A LONG time to get this one - but I have come a long way in owning my sexuality AND understanding the visual creatures men are and to how to be nice to them instead of making nasty faces or ignoring them completely. Thank goodness for Alison Armstrong!

Shit, I look at hot women myself - sometimes you just can’t help it - it goes for hot men too - we are sexual beings, we ooze phermones and scents and odors that naturally and involuntarily ATTRACT each other. So, when I read this article, on Feministing.com, my new fave website, it ruffled my own feminine feathers.
“A German bus driver threatened to throw a 20-year-old sales clerk off his bus in the southern town of Lindau because he said she was too sexy, a newspaper reported Monday.

“Suddenly he stopped the bus,” the woman named Debora C. told Bild newspaper. “He opened the door and shouted at me ‘Your cleavage is distracting me every time I look into my mirror and I can’t concentrate on the traffic. If you don’t sit somewhere else, I’m going to have to throw you off the bus.’”

Now this is the kind of nonsense that perpetuates the kind of unhealthy relating I detest. In Germany no less! That anyone would put someone else responsible for their own actions, reactions, or state of mind, is completely off-base. We (men and women) have to take responsibility for ourselves, our actions and reactions. Especially when it comes to man/woman dynamics! Peace comes from within.
Clearly this bus driver had something going in his life so pressing that he had to project his misguided anger onto this woman and her cleavage. Geez, you’d think he’d be grateful to see such beauty. But the feminine honoring has been deeply lost in this world and it is our charge to get it back.

Remember, I am not saying the guy was right, AND it is this womans choice to allow this mans ignorance to effect her or not.
We are ALL at CHOICE, ALL of the TIME.

PEACE OUT!