It is my distinct pleasure to be able to offer the REAL DEAL about what men really want (in and outside the bedroom), need and are inspired by in women. In this lively and deep interview with three male Relationship Experts, I was able to surface some beautiful insights about men I think will make a big difference in the lives of women.

ONE ~ Men blossom, shine and open up to a woman who is responsible for her emotions.

Please do not hear “don’t have emotions” but rather - be responsible for them. As Decker (www.authenticsf.com) states, “men are irresistibly drawn to a woman who is fully expressed in her emotions, it is magnetic…” So ladies, stop suppressing all you FEEL - men (SOLID men that are capable of creating a deep and powerful partnership) will be able to hang with ALL of you and your feelings.

Men need to be able to count on us to come back to a place of love and trust with them regardless of what might be happening for us in the moment. A man who can’t trust a woman to return to love (without blaming, berating or diminishing him in some way) is a scary prospect that many will not venture into relationship with.
TWO ~ A Man will be inspired to DIE for a woman who TRULY loves him. (Literally…)

Yes, I know that sounds dramatic and little intense - but I want you to get the level of devotion men are capable of when they feel the unwavering love and support of their woman. A man who is truly loved, accepted and honored by his woman will go to extraordinary lengths to please her and give her what she wants.
And the flip side is also a true - a man who is insulted, berated and not supported will turn vindictive, mean and rageful. Women have a HUGE say in where a relationship is headed and where it can go. As Neo Young (www.thecompleteattractor.com) points out “A man wants to be with a woman who loves HIM as much as she loves HERSELF.” Then he can trust (BIG for men) that she will be able to accept his desire as openly and securely as she accepts her own. A man freaks when he see’s a closed, unhappy woman - he see’s little opportunity to win.
LADIES!! That requires us LOVING ourselves DEEPLY and primarily! I am starting to see the remarkable opportunity it is to be a woman who is fully in love with and empowered by HERSELF. We are happier and men are more attracted to us! The work to do is to Love OURSELVES more. Ahh…

And as Andrew Bancroft (www.illbilly.com) aptly puts it “Meet a man where he is at.” We don’t need to change men or turn ourselves into pretzels to please them. “Just be YOURSELF, express and share the places you don’t think you will be loved for.” Amen.

Check out the interview!

http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/just-for-women/episode009-real-deal-modern-men.html