When Do You Tell The Truth?
Fearful lovers lie. Fearful lovers cling. Fearful lovers may or may not see the truth.
If they do, the are afraid of how the truth will lacerate their safety. They choose to swaddle their familiar life, or their hoped-for life, in lies.
And by doing so, suffocate exactly those things that are familiar, exactly those things that they hope for.
In other words, they not only kill what comforts them in the moment…
They snuff the breath of out of love…
This week I am thinking about TRUTH and fearless loving.
When do you see it? When you do feel it? When do you tell it? When do you live it.
And, oh, yeah, by the way — what happens when your truths collide? When does the truth of your ego self conflict with the truth of your highest “selfless”-self?
Ah! you thought this was gonna be easy.
I’ll be posting on this in a few days.
Meanwhile — what you do honestly feel is the role of truth in fearless loving?
When is it self serving? And when does it actually serve the ones you love, or love itself?
Love on…
Adam
Lawrence L said,
March 2, 2009 @ 1:09 pm
Truth about what your needs are in this present moment. Truth about your feelings, your state of arousal or interest. Letting your lover see who you are being. You can be honest about yourself when you trust source to provide all the things you need to be happy at any particular time.
Sarah said,
March 7, 2009 @ 1:56 pm
Truth is all. If a woman can learn to tell the truth about what she’s feeling, at every moment, every interaction in the world gets deeper, love flows more easily, everything gets better. Most often, to tell the truth, we first have to find the truth - and we hide things from ourselves as much as we hide them from others. What a fabulous journey! Thank you for the post, Sarah
Bonnie said,
October 14, 2009 @ 5:12 pm
Adam,
You are so real,accountable, adorable, and human….what a true turn on!Ilove following your work and the way you support the work of others!
Best to you.
Bonnie
Boca Raton Fl