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Two Examples of BioDynamic Touch In Action

These are two experiences from biodnamic cranisacral touch, something I’ve found is very synergistic with learning and practicing Expanded Orgasm.

#1 Dangling Bridges

“Along with this I felt profound awe and was reminded that I am not my physical body, and felt connected to my higher centers, or whatever part of the image I was looking at that time. It was a profoundly moving experience.

What was I feeling? The most exquisite sublimity imaginable. Beyond time. I felt like I was literally sitting atop thousands of little dangling bridges between his fingertips and me. The slightest motion, the slightest change in breath on his part, the slightest anything, had a ripple effect along the dangling bridges.

For the most part, I was enjoying observing what I call the “dangling bridges” effect. It’s almost as if each finger was a rope connected to a dock and I was a large ship and I could float in the water. Increasingly I felt what it felt like to float in the vast ocean of pure consciousness, knowing that somewhere down the line, simultaneously, I was tethered to reality.

I was aware of awareness itself. It was awareness that was keeping the bridges from swaying too much, and allowing me to suspend myself across the vast terrain of the universe without falling back into my smaller, contracted self…”

#2 Container-Enlarging to Expand Pleasure

His breathing was profound. It was so low in his belly, that I had never seen anything this low in my entire life. It was also measured, and very smooth, and very small, waves lapping on shore, the little waves, like little ripples from a goldfish swimming around. I had never seen anybody’s breath that low in the abdomen, and I was transfixed. At some point his breathing shifted, and it became irregular, a sign that he was entering “pure breath”.

There was quite a beauty to the pure breath as well. Again I watched, transfixed, because nothing else to change. The only thing that had moved was this one instantiation of the timing. The location was still deep in his belly.

When I had my session, I decided I would learn from him. Rather than going into the rapid breathing that I was known to do when things got intense, I kept moving my energy deep into my belly, and letting go, and softening, remembering the direct experience I had gotten from watching him. This enabled me to intensify my own experience of receiving. At first my body had snakelike motions, with the kundalini snake, though they were so subtle that an average observer might have been hard-pressed to notice them.

Then the sun started coming through and I became a warm golden glowing, which then started to intensify as I kept sending the energy slowly into my belly. Eventually my whole body began glowing like the sun, and eventually, every cell started bursting out, glowing with intense sun like radiant energy.

Kechari Mudra (gently pressing in my tongue to my roof of my mouth) helped spread the energy and close the circuit so the energy could circulate even as I glowed like a sea of bliss, healthy, radiant, and intensely concentrated. I said to myself, you have been so inwardly focused, and this is your joy, this is your happiness, and you deserve this. Take it all, have this for yourself. And that I did.

I kept cycling from head to belly and belly to head and drinking in the Breath of Life.

Biodynamic Touch: as learned from Charles Ridley: www.dynamicstillness.com

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New Course on the Art of Transmission through Touch, 10/31/09 - 11/1/09, Berkeley, CA

Dear Expanded Lovemakers,

I have something truly remarkable to share with you. On the weekend of October 31 and November 1, I am taking a certain course for the second time, and I’m inviting you to join me. I am so excited about this course and its potential for “expanding your container” for pleasure and personal growth, that I want to share my own experience with you (I have no formal or financial involvement with this course).

Instructor Charles Ridley teaches some of the most beautiful and impactful information I have ever encountered, embodying deep simplicity and extraordinary power to deliver me all the way to my deepest self, over and over again. His course is called “Dynamic Stillness: Embodiment of Your Natural State and the Art of Transmission through Touch.”

I have been learning and practicing this material for more than a year, and it has helped me survive major crises, as well as the usual barrage of pings to my ego. (And by the way, when I need to be a “online”, for example to host a podcast, or be there for someone else who needs me more than I need them, what I learned has come in very handy - even if it is simple!)

And get this: this work has also taught me how to navigate the realms of pleasure, both the everyday and the profound, and to walk through each moment with peace and joy. I have learned through this work to expand my own container (yes, including, but not limited to, erotic pleasure!) for giving and receiving far more joy and ecstasy and I knew possible. I have learned to touch with greater feeling and awareness, and I have learned to receive at a whole new level of feeling.

I know that there is so much more I have to learn from this humble, inspiring, and gifted teacher. I will be there (in Berkeley) that weekend, 9:30 to 4, going deeper. I hope you can join me.

For information see http://www.dynamicstillness.com/non-practitioners-fr.htm. I will post one more post describing a few of my experiences. As this post goes into “deeper creative writing”… I’ve posted it above.

Warmly, Dr. Patti

PS I am going to be interview Charles Ridley for my Podcast, on the Expanded Lovemaking Show, very shortly, so if you can’t make it to this event, be sure to listen to the interview, which is going to be amazing! And, if you aren’t subscribed already, please go to “Notify Me” and sign up for the Expanded Lovemaking Show under the Sexuality category. You’ll always get notified of all my shows this way!
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