The Art of Giving, Using Psychic Energies
Hi all,
This week, Ray Vetterlein comes on as my guest talking about psychic energy, and how to be a master giver of extended orgasmic pleasure. Ray blows me away. I know him personally, so I know for a fact that he has been giving women amazing pleasure for over 40 years.
Let’s dig deeper. Ray is 81 years old, so giving pleasure has been a major part of half his life. It permeates his being. Giving pleasure is living pleasure for Ray. Because Ray can give orgasmic pleasure with his hands, Ray has escaped – or at least navigated– many of the sexual issues that many men confront as they age around what happens in terms of male performance.
Every year, Ray simply becomes a better lover, regardless of whether his prostate gets enlarged, or his Viagra shipment gets delayed (or whatever his issues - if any - may be – I haven’t asked for details). I’m talking big picture here: Learning to give pleasure has been a fabulous insurance “pleasure policy” for Ray.
I see this happen time and time again. Ray is such a wonderful role model for the rest of us. This is one interview you will want to listen to more than once!
Lotus said,
April 12, 2007 @ 7:30 pm
I love the notion of a man aging and still enjoying the sexual energy of giving his woman an extended orgasm. I know for my husband, keeping me in that amazing state for 30 minutes is pure bliss for not just me but for him too. His sense of accomplishment, his ability to tune totally into me, the turned-on feeling he gets giving me this amazing feeling are all uplifting and empowering for him.
I asked him recently if he had to choose between OMing (orgasmic meditation, also known as DOing - deliberate orgasm) me and making love to me, which would he choose. He said it was an impossible choice. He loves pleasuring me so much that it’s as good as making love to me. Getting to the point where you get that kind of energy going so that it’s as good as lovemaking for a man is really a tribute to the value of OMing.
And to think that he can do that to me for the rest of his days, whether he can get an erection or not lets us know that we will have an amazing sexual energy between us until we die.
I am comforted by that - I don’t want to give up any sexual energetic moments we can create together. Thanks, Patti, for that marvelous perspective and your appreciation for an 81 year old man who still loves to make women feel wonderful.
Ray sets the bar but it took you to notice it.
Terrell Prude' Jr. said,
August 25, 2007 @ 3:02 pm
I’ve known Ray since I was seven years old. Today, I’m in my late 30’s. It certainly was his influence that helped nurture in me a desire to blow women’s minds with total pleasure. Not only does it make them feel great, I feel good for being the cause. Ray always has, too.
The reason why Ray can be a master lovemaker is that Ray is, first, a master communicator. It’s a skill that I wish I had to his degree.
The feminists are wrong; men do want to have women as full partners in our lives, including sexually. It’s simply a matter of honest communication. *Any* woman can come her eyes out, and any man can learn to make her do so.