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Why Am I So Passionate about Qi Gong?

Why Am I so Passionate for Chi Gung?

Today I had another Chi Gung breathing lesson. I am studying breathing as a foundation for the moving and standing practices, and my weekly session is one of the most exciting times in my week.

Why is this? Because I learn so much about subtle energy every time. Apparently, there is no limit to how much more I can breathe, feel, sense, and experience. The tiniest shift in my posture, or degree of relaxation, leads to profound shifts in my experience of my own body and hence the world around me.

We can only get so far with gross movements, but to go ever more subtle is an infinite game.

I take everything I’ve learned right from Chi Gung into the rest of my day and night.

And: These lessons have truly inspired me to be a far more sensitive lover - both in the giving and receiving.

Today I learned to soften my face when I breathe. And then, my eyes. And then, the place where my eyes connect to my brain.

I thought I went to a deeper level Alpha heaven along the way with every breath! I can only imagine how good you would feel to me and I would feel to you, were we to meet while both of us were doing this breathing, and being so relaxed and energized at the same time.

And I’ve only really just begun my lessons (way less than ten so far.)

If you are interested in Chi Gung (Qi Gong) and how it relates to sensuality, Bruce Frantzis was interviewed on two fabulous shows 119 and 120, and he has made available the first two chapters of his book, Tiger and Dragon Medical Chi Gung. (Yes, you can use your own chi energy to heal yourself, too! Many people use this system to heal cancer and hundreds of other ailments.)

If you are interested in checking out theses shows and even learning this breathing, go to this link to get your free download of the first two chapters, which show you just what to do in “longevity breathing”. And while you’re at it, check out his other free offering, two tracks from his new CD, Chi Gung for the Sexes. This came in as one of my favorite listens of 2009.

http://tinyurl.com/yebf9a6

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Special Gift for a Beloved Partner: You!

Dear Expanded Lovemakers,

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Sometimes, just knowing - and seeing - what is possible can be a tremendous inspiration.

Happy Holidays,

Warmly, Dr. Patti

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Free Whole Body Breathing Meditation Downloads!

Hi ALL!

Supplemental Material for the Charles Ridley Dynamic Stillness Podcast (Ep. 114)

Embodying the Pure Breath of Love

Whole Body Breathing Meditation Audio MP3, ten minutes long

http://tinyurl.com/yhc2kpn

Plus get an inspiring written summary of Charles’ Dynamic Stillness philosophy as a download in Word or PDF to carry with you.

Warmly,
Dr. Patti
www.ExpandedLovemaking.com

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Two Examples of BioDynamic Touch In Action

These are two experiences from biodnamic cranisacral touch, something I’ve found is very synergistic with learning and practicing Expanded Orgasm.

#1 Dangling Bridges

“Along with this I felt profound awe and was reminded that I am not my physical body, and felt connected to my higher centers, or whatever part of the image I was looking at that time. It was a profoundly moving experience.

What was I feeling? The most exquisite sublimity imaginable. Beyond time. I felt like I was literally sitting atop thousands of little dangling bridges between his fingertips and me. The slightest motion, the slightest change in breath on his part, the slightest anything, had a ripple effect along the dangling bridges.

For the most part, I was enjoying observing what I call the “dangling bridges” effect. It’s almost as if each finger was a rope connected to a dock and I was a large ship and I could float in the water. Increasingly I felt what it felt like to float in the vast ocean of pure consciousness, knowing that somewhere down the line, simultaneously, I was tethered to reality.

I was aware of awareness itself. It was awareness that was keeping the bridges from swaying too much, and allowing me to suspend myself across the vast terrain of the universe without falling back into my smaller, contracted self…”

#2 Container-Enlarging to Expand Pleasure

His breathing was profound. It was so low in his belly, that I had never seen anything this low in my entire life. It was also measured, and very smooth, and very small, waves lapping on shore, the little waves, like little ripples from a goldfish swimming around. I had never seen anybody’s breath that low in the abdomen, and I was transfixed. At some point his breathing shifted, and it became irregular, a sign that he was entering “pure breath”.

There was quite a beauty to the pure breath as well. Again I watched, transfixed, because nothing else to change. The only thing that had moved was this one instantiation of the timing. The location was still deep in his belly.

When I had my session, I decided I would learn from him. Rather than going into the rapid breathing that I was known to do when things got intense, I kept moving my energy deep into my belly, and letting go, and softening, remembering the direct experience I had gotten from watching him. This enabled me to intensify my own experience of receiving. At first my body had snakelike motions, with the kundalini snake, though they were so subtle that an average observer might have been hard-pressed to notice them.

Then the sun started coming through and I became a warm golden glowing, which then started to intensify as I kept sending the energy slowly into my belly. Eventually my whole body began glowing like the sun, and eventually, every cell started bursting out, glowing with intense sun like radiant energy.

Kechari Mudra (gently pressing in my tongue to my roof of my mouth) helped spread the energy and close the circuit so the energy could circulate even as I glowed like a sea of bliss, healthy, radiant, and intensely concentrated. I said to myself, you have been so inwardly focused, and this is your joy, this is your happiness, and you deserve this. Take it all, have this for yourself. And that I did.

I kept cycling from head to belly and belly to head and drinking in the Breath of Life.

Biodynamic Touch: as learned from Charles Ridley: www.dynamicstillness.com

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New Course on the Art of Transmission through Touch, 10/31/09 - 11/1/09, Berkeley, CA

Dear Expanded Lovemakers,

I have something truly remarkable to share with you. On the weekend of October 31 and November 1, I am taking a certain course for the second time, and I’m inviting you to join me. I am so excited about this course and its potential for “expanding your container” for pleasure and personal growth, that I want to share my own experience with you (I have no formal or financial involvement with this course).

Instructor Charles Ridley teaches some of the most beautiful and impactful information I have ever encountered, embodying deep simplicity and extraordinary power to deliver me all the way to my deepest self, over and over again. His course is called “Dynamic Stillness: Embodiment of Your Natural State and the Art of Transmission through Touch.”

I have been learning and practicing this material for more than a year, and it has helped me survive major crises, as well as the usual barrage of pings to my ego. (And by the way, when I need to be a “online”, for example to host a podcast, or be there for someone else who needs me more than I need them, what I learned has come in very handy - even if it is simple!)

And get this: this work has also taught me how to navigate the realms of pleasure, both the everyday and the profound, and to walk through each moment with peace and joy. I have learned through this work to expand my own container (yes, including, but not limited to, erotic pleasure!) for giving and receiving far more joy and ecstasy and I knew possible. I have learned to touch with greater feeling and awareness, and I have learned to receive at a whole new level of feeling.

I know that there is so much more I have to learn from this humble, inspiring, and gifted teacher. I will be there (in Berkeley) that weekend, 9:30 to 4, going deeper. I hope you can join me.

For information see http://www.dynamicstillness.com/non-practitioners-fr.htm. I will post one more post describing a few of my experiences. As this post goes into “deeper creative writing”… I’ve posted it above.

Warmly, Dr. Patti

PS I am going to be interview Charles Ridley for my Podcast, on the Expanded Lovemaking Show, very shortly, so if you can’t make it to this event, be sure to listen to the interview, which is going to be amazing! And, if you aren’t subscribed already, please go to “Notify Me” and sign up for the Expanded Lovemaking Show under the Sexuality category. You’ll always get notified of all my shows this way!
Here’s the link:

http://personallifemedia.com/signup?Submit.x=52&Submit.y=10&Submit=Submit

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Expand Her O - Offer Ends Thurs. Oct. 15, 2009

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Red Hot Touch in Your Plans Tonight?

I recently had a chance to watch the new Red-Hot Touch DVD series from sex experts Jaiya and Jon Hanaeur. The first thing you’ll notice when watching these DVDs are the astonishing sets, created by former Playboy filmmaker Lawrence Lanoff. They’re guaranteed to both blow your mind with their stunning visuals — and set the mood!

The gorgeous and talented Jaiya, who wrote, produced, directed, and stars in these DVDs, takes care to make contact with me, the viewer, and I love that. It’s intimate. She explains how she came to make the DVDs, and shows me the inner workings of how she selected and trained her participants. I come to feel like I know the people in the film, and that they are more than just bodies receiving touch. They are people from various backgrounds, and ages, but make no mistake, they are all here to receive pleasure, and that they do!

There are five DVDs covering erogenous and orgasmic zones, female erotic pleasure, male erotic pleasure, sexual positions, and anal massage. Jaiya is happy to walk us through the DVDs, explaining all the moves the sensual lovers/participants engage in as they are made. You can turn off the sound and simply listen to the music if you prefer.

I’d like to call these people actors but you can just see for yourself that they are deeply and profoundly engaged in true pleasure, so I am simply going to call them lovers. These lovers demonstrate a very sensitive and sensing kind of erotic massage. While giving copious information, and exquisite pleasure, this is not old-school pornography. You will not see fast, mindless sex. Quite the opposite, you’ll experience dazzling, seductive and luscious images designed to invite you to slip into a mindset of luxuriating in deep sensuality.

Check them out at www.redhottouch.com. Who knows? Your next special date could just include one or more of these DVDs in the foreground - or the background - as you yourself make sweet, sensual, erotic love.

And… of course… check out Jaiya’s shows, Episodes 105 and 106 to add even more Jaiya to your life!

http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/230-expanded-lovemaking/episodes/50998-red-hot-touch-full-erotic-majesty-part

http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/230-expanded-lovemaking/episodes/50999-red-hot-touch-total-erotic-mastery-part

Dr. Patti Taylor,
www.ExpandedLovemaking.com

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Let’s link up!

Hi Everyone,

Now that you’ve found my podacst, what’s next?

I invite you to follow me on Twitter, Pattiluv, http://twitter.com/pattiluv

And… Check out our new group on Facebook, “Expanded Orgasm”.

See you soon!

Warmly,
Patti Taylor

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Do Wealthy People Really Enjoy Better Sex?

I read an article today that says there is a positive correlation between women’s self reports of orgasm, and their husband’s bank accounts. There is a lot of controversy as to why this is (see article at http://tinyurl.com/a5w5wk), but it definitely got me thinking about orgasm and wealth.

People have orgasms for lots of reasons: as part of procreation, appeasing a partner, making up after a fight, just plain pleasure, as a testing grounds for going further in relationship, transcendence of consciousness… (Insert your favorite reasons here). Pleasurable sensation is just one of the many reasons.

Once you get to Expanded Orgasm – with its full body, full being experiences, you can start having orgasms for the sake of transcendence of consciousness and even deeper connections, too. Then things really get interesting!

When I saw that statistic I immediately wondered, what is “wealth”? Maybe *orgasmic people* are the truly wealthy.

Anyway, once you reach a certain level of (financial) wealth, you’ve handled the issues of survival, and you’ve probably played a lot more of the materialistic games that life offers.

Many wealthy people I know are also quite intelligent. That’s how they got wealthy in the first place! They’ve usually done a lot of personal growth work on themselves too.

Obviously, not all wealthy people are like this - we’re talking on average - on a very large scale.

So, when you think of the law of averages it would make sense that at least a fair number of wealthy women (and wealthy men) probably would be more orgasmic. They have the time… and also the spaciousness to ask themselves, “what’s the most fun game of all to play?”

The good news is you don’t need a lot of money to be a more orgasmic lover, you may just need to be “orgasmically wealthy”: constantly looking for ways to be more kind, loving, patient, skilled, and capable of putting rapturously focused attention on your partner. Because this is one of the areas you’ve made a priority in your life.

That’s very good news for those of us who are constantly working to better ourselves! We are a most orgasmic bunch!

Yours in Pleasure,
Dr. Patti
www.ExpandedLovemaking.com

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Embodying Stillness and Transmitting Essence, Aug. 8-9 Course

Dear Expanded Lovemakers,

Every now and then I feel blessed to pass along treasures I have experienced in my own journeys through life.
I recently took this course, and was deeply moved and inspired.

It gave me lots of practical ideas as well as ongoing felt sense experiences on how to be more “in touch” with my own inner landscape, a better toucher to others, and more “in the space, presence, and consciousness of love.”

Charles Ridley is a master teacher of Biodynamic Craniosacral Touch – yay for us, this course is open to everyone interested.

Embodying Stillness and the Art of Transmission through Touch:
A two day immersion into the embodiment of stillness and transmitting essence to another through touch.

Date: August 8-9, 9:30 - 4:00
Location: Rudramandir
Address: 830 Bancroft Way, Berkeley, CA
Phone: 415-342-1149
Cost: $120.00
Email: Charles@dynamicstillness.com

For more information go to this link:
www.dynamicstillness.com/non-practitioners-fr.htm

Warmly,

Dr. Patti
www.ExpandedLovemaking.com

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