Episode 7: Alice Solomon: Find Your Love After 50
At one time it was thought that if you were a single woman, 50 or older, your dating life was over. Nothing is further from the truth. According to our guest today, Alice Solomon, author of the book, Find The Love of Your Life After 50, it’s just a matter of knowing how and taking the risk. Her book is filled with useful advice about how to find healthy relationships with men.
She graduated from Wellesley College cum laude at the age of 50, then wrote the syndicated newspaper column, A Guide for Gorgeous Grandmas.
“Being single stinks,” she says. ”A gal 50 to 70 lives with a companion for 35-40 years. Then he dies or leaves the marriage. He’s gone, she’s alone - supporting herself alone on half the income. If she does nothing about it she eventually becomes spiritually, intellectually, societally destroyed. Then her married friends disappear.”
Alice Solomon paints a gloomy picture. But then she tells women what to do about it. “You need courage. You need to be adventurous, open-minded, adaptable and flexible. Stop being so chummy with old friends. Be open to making new friends.”
In this spirited and enlightening interview women learn what to look for in cyberspace, where to go to find companionship, if there’s such a thing as a perfect man and more of what they need to know in order to find the love of their life after 50.



Jan said,
November 14, 2007 @ 7:08 am
I’m tired of feeling like I will never be able to have the kind of relationship I want with a man. But I will keep holding out for my basic beliefs: I want a man who is trustworthy, authentic, funny and understanding. And he’s got to be over 50! Men just seem to get better as they get older, as long as there is a woman around to keep them interested.
Barbara said,
November 14, 2007 @ 7:11 am
I agree with Jan, but I have one caveat — a man has to be able to overcome the stereotype of what he thinks he wants and grow into the man who gets what he needs.